i have changed the way i allow comments,

Hello my wonderful readers. i have had to change the way that i allow comments, meaning that they will have to go through moderation first, as it seems my Ex, who might i add has a DVO current and is  not allowed to harass me , has magically found my blog. I say, too bad so sad that he doesnt like reading about my journey. I  will not hide myself away because of a man who keeps threatening me with pictures and links etc, what i did as a single woman  or even as his partner doesnt shame me, i know how good he is with his little photoshop and computer games so  i am no longer goin gto worry about his drunken attenmpts to sabotage my life and happiness. I have found happiness and  am very proud of my journey with 12wbt, and with that journey has come my strength to put a stop to games being played at my expense. I just had a rather rude comment on my blog so for your enjoyment i will only allow comments i have seen and can moderate. 99 percent of you comment wonderful encouraging things so i thank you for that. :) have a wonderful night. big hugs ,